Today it took Beekee forever to get through his work. Today was like the days his teacher used to complain about at school. The difference here is he can keep working on a task until he completes it, even if it takes him all day. If he gets distracted a few times, it’s no big deal.
Sander, on the other hand, cruised through his work like it was nothing. It was one of those days where he was on it. We had a couple millisecond meltdowns about reading words he was unfamiliar with, but we moved on quickly. It was like it was all too easy for him, and maybe it was. I have a feeling once he gets the routine down he’ll be flying through his work today.
And then after Sander’s work was done, we started talking about bees. This started because there was a spider in the house. Normally I would insist on the spider being taken outside, but given the cold, I decided it could stay, so long as it keeps out of our way. I’m not responsible for it accidentally being squished. We talked about how spiders are arachnids, but that makes them bugs. Insects are also bugs. I said that some examples I could think of as insects were ants, wasps, and bees. This got the kids all excited. They really like bees, and I have no idea why. They have a personal want to save all the world’s honey bees, which is a good thing because we’re well aware of the worlds vanishing bee problem. It’s good to know my little nature lovers are geared towards saving the bees.
And it’s not all about work and play for the kids either. I’m going to have fun tonight too. I know I don’t mention what I’m doing much, because this blog wasn’t started about me, but we’re all a family, which means what we do impacts each other. So tonight I’m going out to a concert, Dropkick Murpheys!
Now, what’s important about this in a greater family context, aside from Corde being really jealous that I’m going, is that I have a chance to do something for me every once in a while. It’s good to know I have a chance to be someone other than mom now and again. This has been a more common occurance in more recent times. I get to have more time to be me, which makes me a better mom in the end.
This brought up another idea I was thinking about. I’m going to start looking for all ages shows that I can take Corde too. She’s old enough now that she’s interested in that kind of thing, and I think it would be fun for her to go. I’d love to be the person to take her.
Years ago my dad took me to my first concert. It was a free concert at the Hatch Shell on the Charles River. We went to see a bunch of artists, the biggest one being Paula Cole. At the time I’d heard her on the radio quite a bit and was really excited to get to see her performing live. It was quite the adventure, and a great day in the cuty.
I hope that I’m the one that gets to take all my kids (if they’re so inclined) to their first concerts. I know I won’t be able to afford taking them often, but it would be great to be able to say I took them to their first one, even if we can’t afford to do anything after that. Concerts are expensive! And so many of them are not all-ages shows. It would mean I’d have to look around for something that is, and those are generally bigger shows that are much more expensive. I’m sure we can find something good for the kids.
But for tonight it’s about me and my fun. Since my birthday is in a couple weeks, this is kind of a birthday present for me. As an added bonus I’ll be picking up a shirt or something from the show, because I want something to remember this by. I’ve only wanted to see them for I don’t even know how long. As they’ve only been around since 1996, I guess you would say I’m an early adopter of the band. I’ve wanted to see them since high school, so I’m thinking it can’t be long after they became a band in the first place. This is one thing I can check off the list of life experiences I would love to have!
So, here’s hoping you all have as wonderful of a night as I will!