Luca was super cranky today. This all came on the tails of not enough sleep the night before. A late night plus an early morning leads to a very cranky Luca that threw a number of tantrums and fought going to sleep like crazy. I finally ended up agreeing that Luca had to lay down for two minutes, and after that there was no requirement to lay down.
About a minute in Luca was asleep…
So why did Luca stay up so late last night? Well, part of it is unrestricted screen time. The long and the short of it is usually the kids are pretty good at moderating their own screen time and spend plenty of time doing other things. Unfortunately, this means Luca would rather be up watching movies than sleeping. Since the downstairs neighbor doesn’t like to hear Luca running around after 9pm, that means Luca’s kind of got to be restricted to one spot, which I think is pretty unfair, but it’s better to stay on good terms with our neighbors. It just isn’t easy because the kids get home from jujitsu so incredibly late. We don’t walk in until 8:30. The kids don’t want to just go straight to sleep. Even if we had a car we wouldn’t get home much earlier, and the kids wouldn’t have had the walk to wear them out. It makes it tough to get the kids to settle down on the best of days.
I digress, the point is, Luca isn’t tired at 9 because of the late nights for jujitsu, so that means keeping Luca settled down in one spot. The best way to do this is to let Luca watch movies while sitting on the bed. Unless I go in and lay down with Luca, that’s what it continues to be, or a lot of tears.
The awesome part of co-sleeping? Luca actually sleeps well at night and doesn’t fuss and wake up in the middle of the night. If that happens, I’m always right there. It hasn’t been an issue to this point. The downside? Luca doesn’t want to go to sleep unless I’m settling down to sleep too. That often means Luca doesn’t go to bed until I’m ready to sleep, which can mean late nights, like last night when I wasn’t ready to go to sleep until 11. Yes, Luca had a very late night.
That brings me to a perk on the other side of the night for co-sleeping. On the plus side, Luca tends to sleep later being comfortable having me right there. If we have a morning where Luca wakes up early, I’m right there to settle Luca down to sleep again. It also means I wake up when Luca wakes up, which is a total benefit. There isn’t much of a downside here unless I want to sleep in. There’s no hope for sleeping in after Luca climbs over me to get me up, kneeing me in the gut in the process. That part is not so fun.
I knew early on this was going to be a rough day. Not only did the lack of sleep give me warning, but early tantrums were also a huge tip off. We had a tantrum over breakfast. (The milk had to come from the little jug, not the big one!) We had a tantrum over computer time. (Sander had to go first and that was just it!) We had a tantrum over the tablet. (Luca wanted to play the baby panda games and nothing else would do!) At the point we had a tantrum because the kids decided to turn off Netflix and play Minecraft, that’s when I was done. Sure, Luca wanted to watch Mighty Med with the big kids, but no one else wanted to. If I didn’t bring an end to these tantrums, there was no way we were going to make it to jujitsu.
It’s too bad it worked out that way too. It’s a beautiful day out. It would have been a great day to get out to the park. Our temperatures are approaching 60 out there. The snow is almost all melted. The birds were chirping like crazy this morning. It’s starting to feel like spring is actually rolling in, but I couldn’t take an already tired and cranky kid out to the park to get more tired and even more cranky, to then go to jujitsu where that kid was going to get even more tired and cranky, and still have to walk home. It was already bad enough that we had a tired, cranky kid because Luca’s class was cancelled on Monday due to lack of participation. I don’t need Luca to be upset at jujitsu again.
Oh well, Luca got a much needed nap and that’s what really matters in the end. Hopefully Luca will wake up to be a much happier sort of bear. That would definitely make the day flow a lot more smoothly.